Incredible Hindi Story From The Life Of Socrates

सुकरात बहुत कुरूप थे। फिर भी वे सदा दर्पण पास रखते थे और बार-बार मुँह देखते रहते थे। 

एक मित्र ने इस पर आश्चर्य व्यक्त किया और कारण पूछा- तो उन्होंने  कहा- “सोचता यह रहता हूँ कि इस कुरूपता का प्रतिकार मुझे अधिक अच्छे कामों की सुन्दरता बढ़ाकर करना चाहिए। इस तथ्य को याद रखने में दर्पण देखने से सहायता मिलती है।”

इस संदर्भ में एक दूसरी बात, सुकरात ने कही- “जो सुन्दर हैं, उन्हें भी इसी प्रकार बार-बार दर्पण देखना चाहिए और सोचना चाहिए कि इस ईश्वर प्रदत्त सौंदर्य में कहीं दुष्कृतों के कारण दाग धब्बा न लग जाय।”

हमें भी समय समय पर अपनी कमियों का निरिक्षण करना चाहिए और उन कमियों को दूर करने का प्रयास करना चाहिए।  ठीक इसी तरह हमें अपनी ताकतों को भी पहचान कर उसे और सुदृढ़ करने का प्रयास करते रहना चाहिए तभी हम अपने आप को संतुलित व सफल बनाये रखने में कामियाब होते रहेंगे।

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प्रेरक प्रसंग - अपनी त्रुटियों पर विजय ही मनुष्य को महान बनाती है|

 नेपोलियन बोनापार्ट के जीवन से जुड़ा अद्भुत प्रेरक प्रसंग

Napoleone(15 August 1769 – 5 May 1821)

अपनी बहन इलाइजा के साथ एक किशोर बालक घूमने निकला। रास्ते में एक किसान की लड़की मिली। वह सिर पर अमरूदों का टोकरा रखे हुए उन्हें बेचने बाज़ार जा रही थी। इलाइजा ने भूल से टक्कर मार दी, जिससे सब अमरूद वहीं गिरकर गन्दे हो गये। कुछ फूट गये, कुछ में कीचड़ लग गई।

गरीब लड़की रो पड़ी। “अब मैं अपने माता पिता को क्या खिलाऊंगी जाकर, उन्हें कई दिन तक भूखा रहना पड़ेगा।” इस तरह अपनी दीनता व्यक्त करती हुई वह अमरूद वाली लड़की खड़ी रो रही थी। इलाइजा ने कहा- “भैया चलो भाग चलें, कोई आयेगा तो हम पर मार पड़ेगी और दण्ड भी देना पड़ेगा। अभी तो यहाँ कोई देखता भी नहीं।”

बहन देख ऐसा मत कह, जब लोग ऐसा मान लेते हैं कि यहाँ कोई नहीं देख रहा, तभी तो पाप होते हैं। जहाँ मनुष्य स्वयं उपस्थित है वहाँ एकान्त कैसा? उसके अन्दर बैठी हुई आत्मा ही गिर गई तो फिर ईश्वर भले ही दण्ड न दे वह आप ही मर जाता है। गिरी हुई आत्मायें ही संसार में कष्ट भोगती हैं, इसे तू नहीं जानती, मैं जानता हूँ।”

इतना कहकर उस बालक ने अपनी जेब में रखे सभी तीन आने पैसे उस ग्रामीण कन्या को दिये और उससे कहा-बहन तू मेरे साथ चल। हमने गलती की है तो उसका दण्ड भी हमें सहर्ष स्वीकार करना चाहिये, तुम्हारे फलों का मूल्य घर चल कर चुका दूँगा।”

तीनों घर पहुँचे, बालक ने सारी बात माँ को सुनाई। माँ ने एक तमाचा इलाइजा को जड़ा दूसरा उस लड़के को और गुस्से से बोली- “तुम लोग नाहक घूमने क्यों गये? घर खर्च के लिये पैसे नहीं, अब यह दण्ड कौन भुगते?”

बच्चे ने कहा- “माता जी! देख मेरे जब खर्च के पैसे तू इस लड़की को दे दे। मेरा दोपहर का विद्यालय का नाश्ता बन्द रहेगा, मुझे उसमें रत्ती भर भी आपत्ति नहीं है। अपनी गलती के लिये प्रायश्चित भी तो मुझे ही करना चाहिये।”

माँ ने उसके डेढ़ महीने के जेब खर्च के पैसे उस लड़की को दे दिये। लड़की प्रसन्न होकर घर चली गई। डेढ़ महीने तक विद्यालय में उस लड़के को कुछ भी नाश्ता नहीं मिला, इसमें उसने जरा भी अप्रसन्नता प्रकट नहीं की। अपनी मानसिक त्रुटियों पर इतनी गम्भीरता से विजय पाने वाला यही बालक आगे चलकर विश्व विजेता नैपोलियन बोनापार्ट के नाम से विश्व विख्यात हुआ। 

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Success Stories

The World history is replete with the stories of people who became successful by working hard and not by waiting for success to befall. The following people have proved that it’s never too late or never too early to accomplish your goals and live your dreams. You can create more meaningful life and authentic career at any age.

1. The greatest composers of all time Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart is the history’s most recognized child prodigy. He started composing at the tender age of 5 and at the age of 8 he wrote his first symphony.

2. American film and television actress, most popular and famous as a child star in 1930s, Shirley Temple Black starred in “Bright Eyes” when she was 6. She ended up becoming a diplomat.

3. American child prodigy with brilliant mathematical abilities William James Sidis is believed to be the smartest man ever lived with an IQ of 250 to 300. He had the ability to read at 18 months, had already published four books and could speak eight languages fluently at age seven, had given a lecture a Harvard at nine and entered Harvard at the age of 11.

4. At the Age 12 Maths Prodigy Xavier Gordon-Brown is Britain’s Youngest University Student who can recite 2,000 digits of Pi and passed his GCSE at the age of eight.

5. At 12, Anne Frank wrote the journey her experiences of pain and sufferings of her secret world during the Holocaust into her renowned wartime diary that touched millions. The diary is full of wisdom and wise sayings.

6. At the age of 12, Srinivasa Ramanujan mastered the advanced trigonometry book written by S. L. Loney, discovered theorems and re-discovered Euler’s identity on his own. By the age of 17, he independently conducted his own mathematical research on the Euler–Mascheroni constant and Bernoulli numbers. During his short lifespan, he compiled nearly 3900 results, which were mostly identities and equations and most of them have now been proven to be accurate.

7. 13-year-old Malavath Purna from Andhra Pradesh touches a historic feat of Indian mountaineering by conquering the Mount Everest – thus becoming the youngest woman in history. The daughter of a poor farm laborer completed her journey with 16 year-old Sadhanapalli Anand Kumar, the son of a cycle mechanic from Khammam district, on 25th May 2014.

8. At 14, Romanian gymnast Nadia Comăneci, the winner of three Olympic gold medals at the 1976 Summer Olympics in Montreal, became the first female gymnast to be awarded a perfect score of 10 in an Olympic event.

9. A 16-year-old Kolkata boy Shouryya Ray, who came to Germany without any knowledge of German, created history by solving a 350-Year-Old two fundamental particle dynamics theories set by Sir Isaac Newton. Before him, physicists could calculate only by using powerful computers.

10. Brazilian footballer Pele is considered to be the most popular and greatest football player to walk the earth won the World Cup at 17. He reigned supreme for near 20 years. All the other greatests – Diego Maradona, Johan Cruyff, Michel Platini – rank beneath him. Some even call him incomparable.

11. At the age 19, Mark Zuckerberg launched Facebook in 2004 and changed the way people communicated and shared information. He is the world’s youngest billionaire whose 28% Facebook shares are estimated to be worth $33 billion, making Facebook’s market worth about $100 billion.

12. The World Heavyweight Champion and professional boxer Rocky Marciano, who didn’t dedicate himself to professional boxing until he was 25 in 1948, won the first 16 fights and go unbeatable throughout his career.

13. British novelist J.K Rowling, who is widely known as the author of the children’s favorite Harry Potter fantasy series, was 30 when the first Harry Potter book was published. She was rejected by more than 12 publishers.

14. At 31, an American aviation pioneer and author Amelia Earhart became the first woman to fly solo across the Atlantic, set many other records and wrote best-selling books about her flying experiences.

15. American media proprietor Oprah Winfrey, widely known and popular for multi-award-winning talk show ‘The Oprah Winfrey Show’ was 32 when she emerged with the highest-rated programme.

16. Canadian singer-songwriter, musician, and poet Leonard Cohen started his music career at 33. He became one of the most successful musicians and was inducted at the American Rock and Roll Hall of Fame, the Canadian Music Hall of Fame and the Canadian Songwriters Hall of Fame.

17. Brenden Gleeson, who is called to be Ireland’s greatest Living Actor, began he career at 34 when he kicked the day job and decided to become a full-time actor

18. American billionaire businessman and philanthropist John Paul DeJoria began, who is popular for founding The Patron Spirits Company and the Paul Mitchell line of hair products, started his career at age 36. Until then he was homeless.

19. Joseph Conrad, full name Jozef Teodor Konrad Nalecz Korzeniowski, a young Polish sailor working for the French marine service, the author of the book Apocalypse Was a sailor, drifter and Part-Time criminal until the age 37.

20. At 26, American actor and novelist Gene Hackman was voted ‘least likely to succeed’ in his acting class and it wasn’t until 37 he got his first movie role and became most successful actor winning three Golden Globes and two BAFTAs and two Academy Awards.

21. Norwegian professional biathlete Ole Einar Bjoerndalen, who is known to be the most medaled Olympian of the Winter Olympic Games with 13 medals, and the most successful biathlete of all time with 39 medals is 40 years old and not thinking of retiring soon.

22. Italian tenor and singer-songwriter Andrea Bocelli, who became blind at the age of 12, wasn’t prominent or played a substantial role until he was 34. His career actually took off at the age of 41 with his famous and the most successful classical album ‘Sacred Arias’, which was sold over 5 million copies.

23. British-American novelist Raymond Chandler was working in the oil industry until the age of 44 when he discovered his passion for writing and decided to pursue it.

24. English actor Alan Rickman Got His First Movie Role at the age of 46. He is famous for his role as Hans Gruber in Die Hard, Sheriff of Nottingham in Robin Hood: Prince of Thieves. He won a Golden Globe Award, a BAFTA Award, an Emmy Award and a Screen Actors Guild Award.

25. Scottish singer Susan Boyle came to international attention at the age of 47 when she appeared on the TV programme Britain’s Got Talent on 11 April 2009 as a contestant and sang “I Dreamed a Dream” from Les Misérables.

26. American businessman of Czech origin Ray Kroc was 52 years old in 1954. He was a milk shake machine salesman and built the most successful fast food chain in the world.

27. Wallace Stevens – changed his career from insurance salesman to poet in his 50s. In 1995, Steven won the Pulitzer Prize for Poetry for his Collected Poems.

28. An American nun Sister Marion Irvine became the then-oldest person to take part in the United States Olympic Trials at age of 47. Earlier, she used to be overweight and smoked almost 2 packs of cigarettes a day. She was qualified for the Olympic marathon trials at age of 54.

29. An American chef, author, and television personality Julia Child is best known for her initiative in popularizing French cuisine to the American public with her famous cookbook ‘Mastering the Art of French Cooking’. It all happened when she was 49, she later at 51 featured on her TV program “The French Chef”.

30. Emmy Award Winning Actress Kathryn Joosten, who was as a psychiatric nurse at Michael Reese Hospital in Chicago, went to Hollywood to pursue her dream of becoming an actress and at 56 she finally made her name there.

31. At age 60, Swedish shooter Oscar Swahn, won two 1908 Gold medals in shooting. He won his last silver medal at the age of 72, which makes him the oldest medalist.

32. An acclaimed African-American author, poet, storyteller dancer and singer Maya Angelou came into limelight in her 60s when her poetry and books became popular.

33. An American motivational speaker, and long-distance swimmer Diana Nyad became the first person to dare to swim from Cuba to Florida without any safety shark cage at the age of 64. Though she gained national attention in 1975 but she received international fame after such daring swim.

34. Ronald Reagan, who is considered to be one the most successful actors in history and the most impactful presidents in American history, became the 40th president of the United States at 69.

35. British natural theologian, physician, and lexicographer Peter Mark Roget is widely renowned for publishing the Thesaurus of English Words and Phrases at Age 73. He was an accomplished doctor, lecturer and inventor but Thesaurus earned him fame across the world.

36. A renowned American folk artist Grandma Moses started painting at 76, when she had to stop embroidery work because of arthritis, continued till 101. She aspired to be an artist in her childhood when should use lemon and grape juice to make colors for her “lambscapes” but couldn’t pursue due to the pressure of assisting her family. She is a very good example that one of such advanced age can accomplish their dream.

37. After spending 27 tortuous years in prison, Nelson Mandela, was elected the president of South Africa in the first election that was open to all races in that country’s history. Mandela was near 76 then

38. 103-year-old British marathon runner of Punjabi Sikh descent Fauja Singh is the world’s oldest marathon runner. At the age of 89, he started running seriously and ended up in international marathon events.

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Attitude - 10 Things Extraordinary People Say Every Day

They're small things, but each has the power to dramatically change someone's day. Including yours. Want to make a huge difference in someone's life? Here are things you should say every day to your employees, colleagues, family members, friends, and everyone you care about:

 

"Here's what I'm thinking."
 
You're in charge, but that doesn't mean you're smarter, savvier, or more insightful than everyone else. Back up your statements and decisions. Give reasons. Justify with logic, not with position or authority.

Though taking the time to explain your decisions opens those decisions up to discussion or criticism, it also opens up your decisions to improvement.

Authority can make you "right," but collaboration makes everyone right--and makes everyone pull together.

"I was wrong."

I once came up with what I thought was an awesome plan to improve overall productivity by moving a crew to a different shift on an open production line. The inconvenience to the crew was considerable, but the payoff seemed worth it. On paper, it was perfect.

In practice, it wasn't.

So, a few weeks later, I met with the crew and said, "I know you didn't think this would work, and you were right. I was wrong. Let's move you back to your original shift."

I felt terrible. I felt stupid. I was sure I'd lost any respect they had for me.

It turns out I was wrong about that, too. Later one employee said, "I didn't really know you, but the fact you were willing to admit you were wrong told me everything I needed to know."

When you're wrong, say you're wrong. You won't lose respect--you'll gain it.

"That was awesome."

No one gets enough praise. No one. Pick someone--pick anyone--who does or did something well and say, "Wow, that was great how you..."

And feel free to go back in time. Saying "Earlier, I was thinking about how you handled that employee issue last month..." can make just as positive an impact today as it would have then. (It could even make a bigger impact, because it shows you still remember what happened last month, and you still think about it.)

Praise is a gift that costs the giver nothing but is priceless to the recipient. Start praising. The people around you will love you for it--and you'll like yourself a little better, too.

"You're welcome."


Think about a time you gave a gift and the recipient seemed uncomfortable or awkward. Their reaction took away a little of the fun for you, right?

The same thing can happen when you are thanked or complimented or praised. Don't spoil the moment or the fun for the other person. The spotlight may make you feel uneasy or insecure, but all you have to do is make eye contact and say, "Thank you." Or make eye contact and say, "You're welcome. I was glad to do it."

Don't let thanks, congratulations, or praise be all about you. Make it about the other person, too.

"Can you help me?"





When you need help, regardless of the type of help you need or the person you need it from, just say, sincerely and humbly, "Can you help me?"

I promise you'll get help. And in the process you'll show vulnerability, respect, and a willingness to listen--which, by the way, are all qualities of a great leader.

And are all qualities of a great friend.
"I'm sorry."

We all make mistakes, so we all have things we need to apologize for: words, actions, omissions, failing to step up, step in, show support...

Say you're sorry.

But never follow an apology with a disclaimer like "But I was really mad, because..." or "But I did think you were..." or any statement that in any way places even the smallest amount of blame back on the other person.

Say you're sorry, say why you're sorry, and take all the blame. No less. No more.

Then you both get to make the freshest of fresh starts.
"Can you show me?"
Advice is temporary; knowledge is forever. Knowing what to do helps, but knowing how or why to do it means everything.

When you ask to be taught or shown, several things happen: You implicitly show you respect the person giving the advice; you show you trust his or her experience, skill, and insight; and you get to better assess the value of the advice.

Don't just ask for input. Ask to be taught or trained or shown.

Then you both win.

"Let me give you a hand."

Many people see asking for help as a sign of weakness. So, many people hesitate to ask for help.

But everyone needs help.

Don't just say, "Is there anything I can help you with?" Most people will give you a version of the reflexive "No, I'm just looking" reply to sales clerks and say, "No, I'm all right."

Be specific. Find something you can help with. Say "I've got a few minutes. Can I help you finish that?" Offer in a way that feels collaborative, not patronizing or gratuitous. Model the behavior you want your employees to display.

Then actually roll up your sleeves and help.
"I love you."

No, not at work, but everywhere you mean it--and every time you feel it.

Nothing.
 

Sometimes the best thing to say is nothing. If you're upset, frustrated, or angry, stay quiet. You may think venting will make you feel better, but it never does.

That's especially true where your employees are concerned. Results come and go, but feelings are forever. Criticize an employee in a group setting and it will seem like he eventually got over it, but inside, he never will.

Before you speak, spend more time considering how employees will think and feel than you do evaluating whether the decision makes objective sense. You can easily recover from a mistake made because of faulty data or inaccurate projections.

You'll never recover from the damage you inflict on an employee's self-esteem.

Be quiet until you know exactly what to say--and exactly what affect your words will have.